It amazes me when people complain about the fact that others can’t see they’re being hurtful and blind about it, when in fact the first ones are doing the exact same thing. I guess life definitively is a vicious cicle
So lately I’ve seen how people complain that others don’t see their feelings, or even worst, they just DON’T say “i love you”. Personally i’m the kind of person that says those 3 little words everyday to everyone that matters to me and it saddens me when i hear stories of relatives who got into a fight and haven’t talk in years, or those people who cry every night thinking “when will he/she notice how much i love him/her? so i thought of sharing a personal story to make the point of how much it matters to say how you feel:
A few years ago one of my aunts lost her older son in a car accident, some time after the event my mom was talking to his brother and he told her that his biggest regret was that he never told his brother that “he loved him”, something so simple and yet he never got to do it. When she first told me this i though “that’s crazy, everyone says i love you to those they care for, right?” apparently not…
Where i’m trying to get is that you should ALWAYS speak your heart out, don’t go around thinking there’s always tomorrow because for some there isn’t so if you have the chance do it today; as a matter of fact do it NOW! Go to your parents and let them know how much you appreciate everything they’ve done for you, call that long lost relative and ask how they’ve been, text your close friends and let them know that you love them, before this day ends make sure you tell at least one person that’s important “i love you”, you have no idea how much you can change someone with that, you might even save a life!